Tuesday, June 2, 2015

Scored low in exams? Its not the end of the world...

CBSE class X and XII results came out earlier this week. As a 90% aggregate becomes as common as kissing in our movies (no big deal) and cut-offs for good colleges become insane, we wonder if there is anyone who hasn’t scored amazing marks. In the loudness of the voice of few high scorers, we often forget about the majority of so-called mediocres who haven't made it into high flying 90% list. According to the report published in THE HINDU newspaper, only 6.6 per cent of students across the country scored above 90 per cent. That means if you are not in the list, don't get disheartened. The majority is still with you. 
Consider an average guy X, who scored something like 65% n board exams and was not so confident about getting a better college & a better job. Everyone, including his parents, relatives and neighbors consoled him that it’s not the end of the world and he has a bright future ahead. But did they really mean it? Did they actually believe their own words of condolence? This article is not meant to act as a balm to your low marks. The aim is to address the majority of the students who don’t get in the limelight because they are below 90%. But consider this:
1.      Marks are only one aspect of one’s capability – Yes marks are important. Higher marks help you get into better branded colleges, which in turn attract better branded companies, which in turn tend to give better compensation (salary). After all its all about money, isn’t it? And I won’t be giving examples of Ambani or so, and say that marks don’t matter. But if you are an average middle class Indian, looking to make his/her living by working for someone else, higher the marks, better the start of your professional career. But it doesn’t means that getting a little less marks is the end of the world. There are lot many organizations which can’t attract the top scorers from colleges and offer jobs to the mediocre talent. But trust me, in my short professional life of 7 years, no one has ever asked my marks after my first job. It’s what I have learnt at my job, and what I have achieved in job is all what matters.
2.       The game is not yet over – The only thing high marks indicate is that the student has the tenacity and perseverance to excel at something. Hence, I am not going to say toppers don’t deserve praise. But life is more than just tenacity and mathematics. Exams don’t test creativity, imagination, people skills and communication. In life these are what matter. And who says that Google or Infosys or HUL are the only companies offering settled life. It’s about what you are good at, what makes you succeed. Learn and improve yourself and do your job with honesty and sincerity. Opportunities will come over time, if you improve yourself. Not everyone can become Sachin Tendulkar of cricket or Lionel Messi of football. But it’s the team of 11 and the substitutes that make a team – CHAMPIONS.
3.      Changing the aptitude – Work is not a burden; it’s a game you need to play. Play it to enjoy and the life will be a lot easier. Complaining regularly about the system will not help, it will only increase your stress and hence deteriorate your own health. Its difficult to believe but I have found it helpful saying – “Either change the system and make it better, or be a part of the system”
This is not written by a guy who secured 90-95% marks and got admission in IIT or IIM and everything was smoothly achieved. It’s written by a average guy belonging to same mediocre category, who has always believed in learning and to enjoy the life – personal & professional. Today, here I am; sitting with the guys from NITs and IITs doing the same work as I am doing and getting more or less the same remuneration. Yes, I had to sacrifice a few years of my life to achieve the same level, but in the end – the experience I had got from those extra few years have made me more tough yet flexible who can get settled more easily than these toppers of our education system.  

Monday, June 1, 2015

Scored low in exams? Some life lessons from a 76 percenter*


The CBSE class X and XII results came out earlier this week. As a 90% aggregate becomes as common as kissing in our movies (no big deal) and cut-offs for good colleges become insane, we wonder if there is anyone who hasn’t scored amazing marks. In the noise of high scorers, we often forget the lakhs of students who score in the fifties, sixties and seventies. We brand them mediocre. We offer them succour with a few articles that cite low scorers who became billionaires or movie stars and have headlines that scream ‘marks don’t matter’. Well, if they didn’t matter, why on earth would everyone be chasing them, is a question they don’t answer.
This article is addressed to those low scorers. It’s for that average guy X who scored, say , a 76% in his boards. X, the overweight kid who isn’t that confident and has become even less so after the results came out. X, whose relatives and neighbours come to console him with ‘it doesn’t matter,’ but deep down wonder if this boy will do anything in life. If you relate to this guy, or know someone who does, this article is for you. It isn’t a soothing balm for your low marks. These are some no-nonsense tips on what to do when you have scores that suck and people have given up on you. Here goes:
1 | You are not your marks
Yes, marks are important. They make life hell of a lot easier. High marks make people think you are smart. Colleges with a brand name let you come in. Companies with a brand name come to these colleges. They give you a job, which pays rather well. You can use that money to pay bills, get married, have sex, start a family, and produce kids who you will push to get higher marks and repeat the cycle of torment. This, for most people, is life -making it as predictable, safe and stable as possible.Indian parents particularly love this zero-risk appetite life, where a monthly cash flow is assured and kids are born and raised as per plan. They have a word for it -settled. Indians love that word. We want to settle, we don’t want to roam, have adventures and fly. Settle, or in other words, produce kids, work in office, watch TV at home, repeat for a few decades, die. Toppers find it easier to settle. Nontoppers take a bit longer. A delay in ‘settling’, the ultimate Indian dream, is just about the only sucky thing about low marks.
2 | The game of life is not over
These marks are in certain subjects, which are not exactly what leads to success in life. Sure, you study Maths and Science, but these are standard concepts, recycled and drilled into students and tested in the exams. The only thing high marks indicate is that the student has the tenacity and perseverance to excel at something. Hence, I am not going to say toppers don’t deserve praise. But life is more than just tenacity and mathematics. Exams don’t test creativity, imagination, people skills and communication. In life these are what matter. You build these skills through study or actual practice, and it is highly likely you will get somewhere in life. However, you must add hard work to it. Ask yourself, whether you had low marks because you don’t have aptitude for these subjects, or did you slack off ? If you slacked off, don’t do that again if you want to get anywhere in life. Take that lesson, and then build your communication, English and people skills. Learn how business works. Not everyone in India can get plum jobs, there are just way too many of us. Entrepreneurship is something a lot of youngsters will have to learn and try .
3 | Strive for excellence
In whatever you do, try to excel. Excellence in board exams can be measured through marks, but over time in life, the marks will stop. What will matter is what people think of you. Your reputation, your reliability, and your word will build your own mini-brand. Once that happens, people will stop asking about your marks, or where you studied. You will be the brand.
Nobody has asked me for my marks in a long time. However, you know the boy I wrote about above? Well, that’s me. I scored that 76% in Class X. I felt horrible then, but eventually I didn’t let it define me. It doesn’t matter today. After all, you still read this article, right?
*Article by Chetan Bhagat (Writer) in Times of India

Wednesday, May 27, 2015

Mysteries From India - The Village Of Twins

Kodinhi is a village in Malappuram district in Kerala, India. Administered by the Nannambra panchayat, the village came to international attention for the unusually large number of multiple births in the region.

Kodinhi only has around 2,000 families, yet there are 250 sets of twins officially registered there. In fact, there could be many more—experts estimate there could be as many as 350 sets of twins in the area.

Despite several studies being conducted, the exact cause of this phenomenon is yet to be ascertained. Women from Kodinhi married off to faraway places are also known to give birth to twins. The number of twin births in Kodinhi has been increasing over the years

Research has suggested that the multiple births could be related to the eating habits of the women in the region; though no direct correlation between dietary intake and twin births has been observed.

Doctors have absolutely no idea what is causing this strange phenomenon. They assume there must be some unknown hereditary factor at work, or maybe it’s something they eat. Until they find out for sure, the Village of Twins remains one of the strangest curiosities of perhaps the most mysterious country in the world

Similar phenomenon of a large number of twin births within a small isolated community has been observed in Cândido Godói, Brazil & in the town of Igbo-Ora in Nigeria

Saturday, May 9, 2015

Want to buy a car... but unsure if you can afford one or not??

Often we consider the price of a car while buying it, and may be the power, comfort, fuel economy etc. Especially while buying a low cost car, we put emphasis on fuel economy but often neglect other costs associated with it. Here's a approximate tabular representation that how a car's running cost may go to almost 40-50% of its purchase price.



These table which are based on very raw calculations show that if you drive your car for approx 30 Kms a day for going to your office and market etc., you may run into shedding about 40% of its purchase price every year. This doesn't takes into account cost for emergency works like accidental damage, techincal problems etc. 

Of course if you are going for further higher grade cars / luxury cars, these figures may not scare you, but if you are a middle class working person, you may want to re-think about your plan to buy a new car. 

And for those who consider car is a necessity now a days, this table still indicates that owning a car shall still be considered as a luxury meant for your comfort only.

Thursday, May 7, 2015

Misplaced sympathy & reaction to Salman Khan found guilty in the 2002 hit-and-run case*

The reactions to film actor Salman Khan found guilty in a 13-year-old hit-and-run case and sentenced to five years in jail have been predictable. The film fraternity has expressed 'shock' over the judgement. Some have expressed sympathies. Even some of the TV news channels have dramatised the entire court proceedings almost giving the impression that the judgement is harsh.

The 'Dream Girl' of Bollywood and BJP MP from Mathura Hema Malini said that her sympathies are with Salman Khan. She hastily added that judgement has to be respected too.

Many other cine celebrities who are unaware of the criminal justice system in India, which says all are equal and the sentencing will also be equal, are behaving like Salman Khan is a poor fellow who has been punished for no fault of his. Fortunately, nobody has attacked the judge or the judiciary because of the fear of contempt proceedings.

Shocking, very few people are openly hailing the judgement and expressing sympathies with the pavement dwellers who died and injured due to Salman Khan's drunken driving.

While the film fraternity as expected closed ranks to express sympathy for one of their own, there is not a single word about Nurullah Mehboob Sharif, the man who was killed in the accident, and his family which is still struggling to lead a decent life. Even the injured Kalim Mohammed Pathan, Munna Malai Khan, Abdullah Rauf Shaikh and Muslim Shaikh have been completely missing from the discourse.

Even with all the shortcomings, our judiciary has time and again proved that it will not spare anybody. The same judiciary has sent another big film star Sanjay Dutt to jail in the Mumbai bomb blast case of 1993. The same judiciary has sent mighty people like AIADMK supremo J Jayalalithaa, business tycoons Subrato Roy Sahara and Ramalinga Raju, self-confessed godman Aasaram, the powerful Haryana politician family Chautalas and many others in various other cases across India.

Instead of shedding tears for Salman Khan's plight, the so-called educated society must hail the judgement and express sympathies with the poor victims of Salman Khan's rash driving.

Salman Khan seems to have realised that he is also a human being after the judge Deshapande declared him guilty of all charges. With tears in his eyes and folded hands, he requested Additional Sessions judge DW Deshpande to sentence him as an ordinary citizen and not as a super film star.

Only when they are down and faced with the harsh realities of life, our rich, famous and the mighty come down to earth and start behaving like commoners. Once again thanks to our judiciary.

These things are not just India specific phenomenon. Even in the West, the so-called educated and the rich people do similar things.

The biggest lesson from Salman Khan case is - the judiciary has once again proved that it is above everything and will not spare anybody, even if you are Salman Khan.

That's the spirit of our Constitution and the law. We should not be guided by misplaced sympathy, whoever may be the guilty.

While the film fraternity closed ranks to express sympathy for one of their own, there is not a single word about Nurullah Mehboob Sharif, the man killed in the accident.

* Source: ibnlive.com

Wednesday, January 28, 2015

ULTA-PULTA SPECIAL - DHOOOOM:4 to cross 1000Cr. mark

After the grand success of D3, the producers of Dhoom series have decided to rope in the 3 KHANS of bollywood - SRK, AAMIR & SALLU BHAI

According to the sources, the producers want to create a history in the bollywood by crossing the four digit mark of 1000Cr. and they had taken the first step by getting the acceptance to the 3 KHANS for the next movie. They say that if their individual acts can cross 300Cr. mark, the triangle will definitely encore 1000Cr. mark in bollywood. 

Our corespondents have tried to reach the Trimurti (3 Khans) but were not able to get the comments. We will keep bringing you the latest development on bollywood; so stay tuned to our blog.

Source: justforfun.likemeplease
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Friday, December 26, 2014

Some Lesser Known Facts related to Ramayana

Ravana and his brother Kumbhakarna are considered to be the incarnations of Jaya and Vijaya the gate keepers of Lord Vishnu's world. They were cursed by Brahmas sons Four Kumaras  to be born in earth after they were refused entry into Lord Vishnu's world. Jaya and Vijaya then pleaded Lord Vishnu to show them solution by which they could avoid the dire consequence of their insolence.

Lord Vishnu gave them two options. They could either be born as his devotees for 7 life cycles or as his enemies for 3 life cycles. They chose the later since they preferred not to be separated from Lord Vishnu for a Long period of time.

They were born as:


  1. Hiranyaksha & Hiranyakashapa in Satya Yuga
  2. Ravana and Kumbhakarna in Tretha Yuga
  3. Dantavakra and Shishupala in Dwapara Yuga.


Thursday, November 20, 2014

AMAZING RAILWAYS

नेपियर-जिस्बॉर्न रेलवे (न्यूजीलैंड)


नेपियर से जिस्बॉर्न का रेलवे ट्रैक अनूठा है, क्योंकि यह जिस्बॉर्न हवाई अड्डे के मुख्य रनवे से होकर गुजरता है। ट्रेनों को इस रनवे पर बनी पटरी से गुजरने से पहले एयर ट्रैफिक कंट्रोल रूम से अनुमति लेनी होती है। तस्वीर में हवाई अड्डे के रनवे के बीच से 1939 स्टीम ट्रेन गुजरती दिख रही है।

[NAPIER GISBORNE RAILWAY (NEW ZEALAND)

The railway track from Napier to Gisborne is one of its kind, because the track runs directly through the Gisborne Airport. The trains have to take permission from traffic Control Room to run through this runway.]